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Friday, November 05, 2010
Love Language
Love Language
Take 30 seconds and tell me which answer is the most true about how you feel:
1. I feel especially loved when people express how grateful they are for me, and for the simple, everyday things I do.
2. I feel especially loved when a person gives me undivided attention and spends alone time with me.
3. I feel especially loved by someone who brings me gifts and other tangible expressions of love.
4. I feel especially loved when someone pitches in to help me, perhaps by running errands or taking on household chores.
5. I feel especially loved when a person expresses feelings for me through physical contact.
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What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! It goes to a bgr or even between friends! So by answering how you like someone to show their love to you, there's also the other side, where you can find out your strongest gift to others!
Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality Time
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical Touch
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
I think i feel most loved when someone expresses feelings through physical contact. Its the little movements that counts, thats why its hard for me to be physically close to anyone! And if I do, you are someone important, and our friendship means more than a lot. I think my strongest gifting to others is quality time. I can give you my undivided attention anytime and I enjoy doing just that (:
Share with me what you got... I wanna know, hope this helps you improve your friendship or love life ;)
Take 30 seconds and tell me which answer is the most true about how you feel:
1. I feel especially loved when people express how grateful they are for me, and for the simple, everyday things I do.
2. I feel especially loved when a person gives me undivided attention and spends alone time with me.
3. I feel especially loved by someone who brings me gifts and other tangible expressions of love.
4. I feel especially loved when someone pitches in to help me, perhaps by running errands or taking on household chores.
5. I feel especially loved when a person expresses feelings for me through physical contact.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! It goes to a bgr or even between friends! So by answering how you like someone to show their love to you, there's also the other side, where you can find out your strongest gift to others!
Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality Time
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical Touch
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
I think i feel most loved when someone expresses feelings through physical contact. Its the little movements that counts, thats why its hard for me to be physically close to anyone! And if I do, you are someone important, and our friendship means more than a lot. I think my strongest gifting to others is quality time. I can give you my undivided attention anytime and I enjoy doing just that (:
Share with me what you got... I wanna know, hope this helps you improve your friendship or love life ;)
Monday, November 01, 2010
Halloween 2010
Halloween 2010
Just sometimes when you know too many people
and reject many invitations but still wanna hang out
and post nice pictures or just to update my close friends.
Facebook is no longer safe from stalkers.
Admit it people, we are all stalkers...
So just for you loves who still support and come view my humble blog here is this my first halloween costume and my 2nd "party in the USA". Drove 2 hours up to Davis...
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
"The/Social/Network"
"The/Social/Network"
Have you watched it?
Go with a light head, cause the lead talks like as if he would die if he don't spits the word out soon enough.
Well not gonna be a spoiler and spill the whole movie out.
But recent events took place and I've learnt a lot from the movie actually.
What is it that makes us tick and what keeps us interested in things on a long run?
What do men think about women, as in are we just trophy girlfriends/wife, things or are we someone to share our life with?
Why is American movies all full of White people dissing other ethnicity?
Are all billionaires the way they portray themselves to be?
Are older men finding younger girls with ulterior motives behind them?
WHATS UP WHATS IN AND WHATS OUT?
I can't study right now... HAHAHA ok go figure!
Have you watched it?
Go with a light head, cause the lead talks like as if he would die if he don't spits the word out soon enough.
Well not gonna be a spoiler and spill the whole movie out.
But recent events took place and I've learnt a lot from the movie actually.
What is it that makes us tick and what keeps us interested in things on a long run?
What do men think about women, as in are we just trophy girlfriends/wife, things or are we someone to share our life with?
Why is American movies all full of White people dissing other ethnicity?
Are all billionaires the way they portray themselves to be?
Are older men finding younger girls with ulterior motives behind them?
WHATS UP WHATS IN AND WHATS OUT?
I can't study right now... HAHAHA ok go figure!
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Depressed...
I think this quarter i'm more depressed than I've ever been...
I laughed at somebody who said "extreme lonliness"
becoz i haven't experienced that.
When that person said "extreme lonliness" it didn't infer not only having no
intimate relationships, but no friends and family too...
I regret what I did, and i would say, that its really a real feeling that I can't help myself.
Neither can I control it.
If i were to psychologically diagnose myself, I think i'm mildly depressed at this point.
Financially, i seem to be unable to control my outflow of cash,
although i don't seem to buy much stuff, the money disappears.
Working is not an option, there's not much time for me to work and focus on studying...
Also i think having no alone time now, makes me feel distance from God
and know what, i just need a break, from everything, I just need a retreat
into a place of nothingness for a while, I'll come back out when I'm ready...
Sometimes I just wanna SHOUT LEAVE ME ALONE,
not that I hate you or anything, i just need my quiet time......
I laughed at somebody who said "extreme lonliness"
becoz i haven't experienced that.
When that person said "extreme lonliness" it didn't infer not only having no
intimate relationships, but no friends and family too...
I regret what I did, and i would say, that its really a real feeling that I can't help myself.
Neither can I control it.
If i were to psychologically diagnose myself, I think i'm mildly depressed at this point.
Financially, i seem to be unable to control my outflow of cash,
although i don't seem to buy much stuff, the money disappears.
Working is not an option, there's not much time for me to work and focus on studying...
Also i think having no alone time now, makes me feel distance from God
and know what, i just need a break, from everything, I just need a retreat
into a place of nothingness for a while, I'll come back out when I'm ready...
Sometimes I just wanna SHOUT LEAVE ME ALONE,
not that I hate you or anything, i just need my quiet time......
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Beyond Secrets
Beyond Secrets
"God can let something so big, so dangerous or so sad happen to us, but at the same time, strengthen us so that we will instead of falling, we grow stronger and mightily against the evil one.
By Faith, Love and His Everlasting Mercy.."
(Taken from a loved ones blog and Amen to this.)
"God can let something so big, so dangerous or so sad happen to us, but at the same time, strengthen us so that we will instead of falling, we grow stronger and mightily against the evil one.
By Faith, Love and His Everlasting Mercy.."
(Taken from a loved ones blog and Amen to this.)
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Ya Gon Learn Chinese
Ya Gon Learn Chinese
So school started and school's a lil' tough after my FANTABULOUS SUMMER BREAK!
It ended with a Bang Bang PEUUUUUU...
I went to Lake Tahoe dude!!
Awesome time I had there, I did parasailing, white water rafting, horseback riding, hiking....
AWESOME, got my summer tan and got to know more White guys...
OMG SOUTH LAKE TAHOE in the summer only has HOT WHITE GUYS...
Not that i'm paricularly interested hey more eye candies right?
Watch out for my pictures on fb...
So yes I'm taking Chinese classes now,
like huh? ZDY what are you doing????
And no i'm not taking advanced Chinese classes,
I'm taking like introductory to Chinese class HUR HUR HUR :P
Well i'm just doing for transfer purposes and it is the most interesting class i have so far,
know why?
CAUSE I ROCK AT IT (:
but yea seriously it beats learning with a bunch of asians, when theres a mix of people
and the way they all learn are so different.
Probably my only relaxing class out of all the mods i'm taking.
MISS YOU FOLKS, SKYPE ME SOON and pull me out of my low
So school started and school's a lil' tough after my FANTABULOUS SUMMER BREAK!
It ended with a Bang Bang PEUUUUUU...
I went to Lake Tahoe dude!!
Awesome time I had there, I did parasailing, white water rafting, horseback riding, hiking....
AWESOME, got my summer tan and got to know more White guys...
OMG SOUTH LAKE TAHOE in the summer only has HOT WHITE GUYS...
Not that i'm paricularly interested hey more eye candies right?
Watch out for my pictures on fb...
So yes I'm taking Chinese classes now,
like huh? ZDY what are you doing????
And no i'm not taking advanced Chinese classes,
I'm taking like introductory to Chinese class HUR HUR HUR :P
Well i'm just doing for transfer purposes and it is the most interesting class i have so far,
know why?
CAUSE I ROCK AT IT (:
but yea seriously it beats learning with a bunch of asians, when theres a mix of people
and the way they all learn are so different.
Probably my only relaxing class out of all the mods i'm taking.
MISS YOU FOLKS, SKYPE ME SOON and pull me out of my low
Saturday, September 11, 2010
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Jet Lagged and bored
I haven't had any jet lagged until this time when i returned. It doesn't feel any different, only probably you feel bored waking at 3-5am in the morning thinking what to do and feeling really tired at 7pm every night. Funny why its these times, totally not related to the day and night half way across the world...
So i conclude that JETLAG is a BITCH
For those who know, updates, F changed his phone number and called me, GOD, I PRAY FERVANTLY that he doesn't find me nor stalk me nor be friends with me, I've decided to end everything even that friendship. ARGH... enough is enough (you know i usually don't end friendships but thats a period to this one)
Aside from these, I MISS MISS MISS MISS MISS MISS my friends, family and BABY back home
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I haven't had any jet lagged until this time when i returned. It doesn't feel any different, only probably you feel bored waking at 3-5am in the morning thinking what to do and feeling really tired at 7pm every night. Funny why its these times, totally not related to the day and night half way across the world...
So i conclude that JETLAG is a BITCH
For those who know, updates, F changed his phone number and called me, GOD, I PRAY FERVANTLY that he doesn't find me nor stalk me nor be friends with me, I've decided to end everything even that friendship. ARGH... enough is enough (you know i usually don't end friendships but thats a period to this one)
Aside from these, I MISS MISS MISS MISS MISS MISS my friends, family and BABY back home
:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
Friday, September 10, 2010
DEAD BORED
DEAD BORED
So i'm back in Frisco early this year...
I'm going through all the school applications.
Hopefully I'm able to get in somewhere.
Already missing everyone back home!
Sorry guys for the rush by in the airport
but APPRECIATE TIME TAKEN TO CRAWL OUT AND SEND ME OFF!!!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE,
I'm having a bad bout of jet-lag this time ard...
So i'm back in Frisco early this year...
I'm going through all the school applications.
Hopefully I'm able to get in somewhere.
Already missing everyone back home!
Sorry guys for the rush by in the airport
but APPRECIATE TIME TAKEN TO CRAWL OUT AND SEND ME OFF!!!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE,
I'm having a bad bout of jet-lag this time ard...
Friday, September 03, 2010
Ho Ho Ho!
Oh....
so now i see your TRUE COLORS !!
Conclusion to everything that I've found out from my time in Singapore? I choose to ignore, not because i'm ignorant but because there's so much more things in life i want to be appreciative and happy about, rather than having to worry about and care about. That also doesn't mean I don't care either, but personal decisions are yours to make, not to be influenced nor forced upon.
I see displeasures, i see anger, i see hatred, i see fear, i see frustrations, i see disappointment and most of what i saw WAS happiness. What can i do in this short period of time? Apologies won't sound sincere, appreciation, would be misunderstood, celebration, would be inappropriate.
I wish to shout GROW UP but who am I to say? When I know I'm one of those who needs it too!
Forgive and forget is still my moto, the friendship of xx years overwrites all else. And I still love you <3
so now i see your TRUE COLORS !!
Conclusion to everything that I've found out from my time in Singapore? I choose to ignore, not because i'm ignorant but because there's so much more things in life i want to be appreciative and happy about, rather than having to worry about and care about. That also doesn't mean I don't care either, but personal decisions are yours to make, not to be influenced nor forced upon.
I see displeasures, i see anger, i see hatred, i see fear, i see frustrations, i see disappointment and most of what i saw WAS happiness. What can i do in this short period of time? Apologies won't sound sincere, appreciation, would be misunderstood, celebration, would be inappropriate.
I wish to shout GROW UP but who am I to say? When I know I'm one of those who needs it too!
Forgive and forget is still my moto, the friendship of xx years overwrites all else. And I still love you <3
Sunday, August 22, 2010
AH!!!
I'm so irritated by these black flies i had to blog at 3:57AM!
Firstly these dumb flies are DUMB, they don't fly fast enough and they stay in that position for you to kill them.
Second they don't do anything other than create a black stain-like shape on the beds/walls/clothes/etc. (not counting the stain they create after u smash them)
Third they die by themselves and you see their motionless body littered all over the floor...
SO WHY DO THEY EXIST?!
Firstly these dumb flies are DUMB, they don't fly fast enough and they stay in that position for you to kill them.
Second they don't do anything other than create a black stain-like shape on the beds/walls/clothes/etc. (not counting the stain they create after u smash them)
Third they die by themselves and you see their motionless body littered all over the floor...
SO WHY DO THEY EXIST?!
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