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Saturday, November 27, 2010
Friday, November 05, 2010
Love Language
Love Language
Take 30 seconds and tell me which answer is the most true about how you feel:
1. I feel especially loved when people express how grateful they are for me, and for the simple, everyday things I do.
2. I feel especially loved when a person gives me undivided attention and spends alone time with me.
3. I feel especially loved by someone who brings me gifts and other tangible expressions of love.
4. I feel especially loved when someone pitches in to help me, perhaps by running errands or taking on household chores.
5. I feel especially loved when a person expresses feelings for me through physical contact.
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What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! It goes to a bgr or even between friends! So by answering how you like someone to show their love to you, there's also the other side, where you can find out your strongest gift to others!
Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality Time
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical Touch
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
I think i feel most loved when someone expresses feelings through physical contact. Its the little movements that counts, thats why its hard for me to be physically close to anyone! And if I do, you are someone important, and our friendship means more than a lot. I think my strongest gifting to others is quality time. I can give you my undivided attention anytime and I enjoy doing just that (:
Share with me what you got... I wanna know, hope this helps you improve your friendship or love life ;)
Take 30 seconds and tell me which answer is the most true about how you feel:
1. I feel especially loved when people express how grateful they are for me, and for the simple, everyday things I do.
2. I feel especially loved when a person gives me undivided attention and spends alone time with me.
3. I feel especially loved by someone who brings me gifts and other tangible expressions of love.
4. I feel especially loved when someone pitches in to help me, perhaps by running errands or taking on household chores.
5. I feel especially loved when a person expresses feelings for me through physical contact.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! It goes to a bgr or even between friends! So by answering how you like someone to show their love to you, there's also the other side, where you can find out your strongest gift to others!
Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Quality Time
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Physical Touch
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
I think i feel most loved when someone expresses feelings through physical contact. Its the little movements that counts, thats why its hard for me to be physically close to anyone! And if I do, you are someone important, and our friendship means more than a lot. I think my strongest gifting to others is quality time. I can give you my undivided attention anytime and I enjoy doing just that (:
Share with me what you got... I wanna know, hope this helps you improve your friendship or love life ;)
Monday, November 01, 2010
Halloween 2010
Halloween 2010
Just sometimes when you know too many people
and reject many invitations but still wanna hang out
and post nice pictures or just to update my close friends.
Facebook is no longer safe from stalkers.
Admit it people, we are all stalkers...
So just for you loves who still support and come view my humble blog here is this my first halloween costume and my 2nd "party in the USA". Drove 2 hours up to Davis...
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